Sex Positions

The twenties is the traditional time to mate up for life. It’s also the worst time, biologically speaking. “This is when men and women are more different sexually than in any other decade in their lives”. “It’s the most difficult time to understand each other and get along.” Read the rest of this entry »

Not so long ago, people under 60 assumed that people over 60 stopped having sex altogether. We’ve gotten smarter than that—even if Hollywood hasn’t—but other myths of maturity prevail: To wit:

Myth: At a certain age, a man can no longer get an erection. Read the rest of this entry »

So you can’t plane a shelf or fix a broken light socket. There are other ways to use your hands that will do a lot more for your sex life.

Touch is an underused source of mutual pleasure in many relationships. It’s underused during foreplay. It’s underused during lovemaking. It’s underused as an alternative to genital intercourse. And it’s underused during the 23 or so hours of the day when you’re not engaged in sex. Read the rest of this entry »