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Sexual boredom is sometimes nothing more than a cave-in to intimacy overload. “When you feel you’re getting overloaded with all the intimacy that accumulates in a relationship, sex is the place where you turn it down.”

Here are some ways to blast boredom and restore intimacy to your love life.

Get together. Connecting sexually is easier if it’s just one more aspect of other kinds of intimacy. In case you haven’t noticed, men and women are pretty busy these days, so it’s important to set aside time to be together somewhere outside the bedroom. Alman calls it sweetheart time, but just pretend you never heard the term. The important thing is to do it. “It doesn’t necessarily have to be time for sex”. “But if you build in sweetheart time, sex follows.”

Share an adventure. While a woman’s idea of intimacy is talking, a man’s is doing. So try to get her to do things with you that tap your sense of intimacy. “Men love adventure“. “A side-by-side adventure is intimacy for a man, just as it was on the grasslands of Africa a million years ago.”

Try a long walk in the city with no set destination. Your prey? The unknown bookstore, the hidden park, the street you didn’t know was there.

Soak her in. Okay, you’ve had your adventure together. Now try it her way. That means talk. “You have to recognize that face-to-face talking is intimacy to her”. Find a conversation-conducive setting that holds out some other attractions and approach it in good faith. Try talking in the tub, for example.

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