Guys! How to soothe away girlfriend Sexual Fear, get her Sexual Attention?

July 29th, 2009

Aromatic oils are equally effective on women in helping them to feel more comfortable in a sexual situation. If you are nervous about making love, either because you are just entering into an intimate relationship, or you have not made love for a long time, then surround yourself with healing fragrances which will soothe away your fears. Place jasmine, sandalwood and neroli into a scent burner so its perfume fills your bedroom, and breathe deeply to inhale the smell of this wonderful, and exotically sensual blend. Jasmine and sandalwood will help you to feel as if you are really back inside your body instead of being locked up with your mind. Neroli will enhance the blend, surrounding you with the haunting fragrance used and loved by Cleopatra. Neroli is a particularly appropriate choice of oil in times of sexual anxiety for it is both a relaxant and an aphrodisiac. It is able to combine a deep and soothing feeling of peace and contentment while putting you in the mood for love. It will also give you the courage to communicate about your sexual fears or any issues of importance which exist between you and your lover. This communication will enable your relationship to go deeper.

If you feel that you have a sexual dysfunction, then seek professional help from a counsellor or doctor for it may have a medical base. Or it may be rooted in painful memories or emotional issues, which an expert sex therapist can help you to resolve. At the same time, use the rose and ylang ylang oils to heal past emotional wounds and to awaken your innate sensuality. Anoint yourself with the luxuriant blends, and enjoy touching your own body. Nurture your skin as you stroke and caress yourself. Have a friend or lover massage you with these oils, and enjoy the experience of being pampered (Recipe 1). Essence of rose will make you feel enticing, seductive and exquisitely feminine. This flower of Venus will heal your heart, opening it up to gentle and loving feelings. If you are nervous, it will calm you and create positive thoughts in your mind. Combine your rose oil with ylang ylang oil for it too can open up your heart to love and your body to sensuality. It can also ease old feelings of guilt or worry which may inhibit your free-flowing sexual energy. Perhaps you are simply tired or lethargic, or stress has lowered your vitality and caused you to lose interest in sex. Choose oils which will warm you up (Recipe 2). Black pepper and ginger should do the trick, putting the spice back into your life. Then add a little neroli for a really seductive, and sensuous feel. Place your oils in a burner or ask your friend to give you a lovely massage.