Sexual Orgasm-Obsessed: Men in 20s are Nuts, Women in 30s are Tigers
The twenties is the traditional time to mate up for life. It’s also the worst time, biologically speaking. “This is when men and women are more different sexually than in any other decade in their lives”. “It’s the most difficult time to understand each other and get along.”
That’s mainly because your high testosterone levels, unbalanced by any real kind of maturity, are steering your sexual style. Essentially, you’re a genitally driven, fast-paced, hard-thrusting, orgasm-obsessed tomcat who’d be on the prowl if he were single, as you once were. Your mind may be pure, but your glands are working against it. “Testosterone has a real tough time settling down with one sexual partner”.
At the same time, women are at the height of their “estrogen receptiveness,” meaning they’re eager to please you. But they’re really much more fulfilled by being held and touched while penetrated than they are by your jackhammer act.
Your adult sexual development offers a built-in path to sexual success if you both stick it out. But there’s no rule against taking shortcuts. Adopt a fortysomething sexual approach when you’re still twentysomething, and you’re way ahead of the game.
“Even a 20-year-old can learn to enjoy the give-and-take of sex with a partner”. “Make requests for your own arousal and learn to get turned on by her arousal. If you do, you’re going to inoculate yourself against sexual problems as you age.”
You come around a bit in your thirties, as the testosterone backs off enough to let you see the merit in meeting her needs. You’re just not too good at it yet.
The major sexual change in the thirties is hers. That once docile and receptive young thing wants her orgasm, and she wants it now. “The problem is that she’s not necessarily very graceful about her new assertiveness”. “She can get pretty prickly.”
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Sexual Orgasm-Obsessed: Men in 20s are Nuts, Women in 30s are Tigers
Posted by dodo in Uncategorized | 1 Comment »
October 15th, 2009 at 10:01 PM
Very good analysis of the situation.
“Testosterone has a real tough time settling down with one sexual partner.”
I may have to use that as a defence one day.
As to men in their 20’s not understanding the importance in pleasuring a woman, I’d say it’s applicable to some 20 year olds, but not all.
Since a teenager, I’ve known the importance in giving a woman an orgasm.
I’ve also worked on other aspects of my sexuality, such as increasing the size of my manhood with exercises…
Works especially well for increasing the flaccid size as well.